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I think the most difficult aspect of the pandemic is the uncertainty. We humans do not make decisions well, nor do we live comfortably, under conditions of uncertainty.

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An old friend sent me an email with this poem attached. It is going viral on the internet, but I like it so much that I want to reprint it here for any of our readers who have not yet seen it. My friend is in his 80s now, is a retired physician, and is probably as scared as you and I are. He…

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So, every year about this time I am convinced that I’m probably going to have to skip this year’s Christmas/holiday column because I can’t think of anything positive to say. I have a hard time getting past how polarized we have become and all the many horrible events that have been transpiri…

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Almost nothing I have seen while visiting my daughter in Oakland, Calif., would fly in Alpharetta, Ga. Or would it? Most of what I see is different in a good way though, but also in an abrupt, unfamiliar and sometimes startling disruptive way. 

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Four young teen boys in the 1960 Ford Galaxy were beginning to panic as they navigated down I-95 to Miami. They kept getting pulled over by State Troopers. A taillight out was out. It was past sundown now and they had already received one warning.  

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I take my reporter’s notebook to church because our minister, Ollie, almost always has topics in his sermon that I want to remember. So I take notes.

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The wait is agonizing. Cars are backed up for miles because of a multi-car wreck on Ga. 20 in Forsyth County. Slowly, the wreck scene is being cleared so that traffic can start back up. In one of the cars near the front of the line, 85-year-old Mary waits patiently and gets ready to move. Th…

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One advantage of having ADD when you work in the business that I work in — the news business — is that I have this archive of unfinished columns I can turn to whenever I want to write. For every column I have published over the years, I probably have 10 that I started and never finished that…

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Christina and I traveled to Norman, Oklahoma last week, possibly for the second to last time.  We’ll be back in a couple of weeks for Carl’s graduation.  

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We are all so tired of the attack politics that plague our country. We’re tired of the partisanship. We’re tired of people simply being ugly to each other — being disrespectful and showing no empathy for the world outside of their own point of view. It’s getting old, really old.

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I gave my wife a big hug and took one last look at her — my soul mate and my best friend — then turned my back and started walking north into the woods. That was about three years ago last week. 

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So, I’ve finally started reading again — at least some. I seem to go in cycles where I find lots of books that interest me that I am able to digest. Then there are those times when my attention span is two minutes or less — at best. I don’t know what that’s all about.  

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One of my most vivid childhood memories involves an animal, a coward, a hollow man, and a young girl in a blue checkered dress with a voice that made angels cry. And red, red, red ruby slippers.

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For those few of you who actually read what I manage to write occasionally, you know I often talk about my primarily source of knowledge and insight into this world we live in comes from my children. The older I get the more I believe that they are my best source to learn about the outside w…

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I love Christopher’s Nolan’s movie “Inception.” I need to see it again — at least once but probably more than once. 

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So, the post-Christmas 2018 column came earlier than I thought it would. It started arriving about 7 p.m. Christmas night, about halfway through our family Christmas present-opening gathering in our home with all three of my children, daughter in-law Kristina, our two grandchildren, wife Chr…

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My Christmas column arrived in the mail yesterday in the form of a Christmas card and note from a woman from Massachusetts who I met on my Appalachian Trail hike — Jacey Shumaker. She was hiking with her two daughters, ages approximately 7 and 10, and a great big golden lab. We met because a…

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I was going to try to write a nice Christmas column but decided to write about toilets instead. 

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About six years ago, I was diagnosed with prostate cancer. At that time, there were only two treatments available; robotic assisted surgery and radiation (either by external beams or seed implants). I chose seed implants, and so far the procedure has been successful and I continue to be canc…

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I have always wanted for our readers to send us their vacation travel stories — especially when they are fun, interesting or special in some way.

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Every day when I drive through downtown I am amazed by what I see — new high schools, multi-million-dollar private clubs, town homes under construction from the $700,000s everywhere you turn. Frequently, I read through the newspaper, and low and behold, there it goes again — “$38 million lux…

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So, often I tell myself that after I read a book I should make some notes on any significant passages or ideas, so that next week, when someone asks me what the book was about, I may be able to respond. I hate it when I have read a book and cannot recall anything about it other than the gene…

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Massive crowds rallied today across America – and across the world – to protest gun violence and the massacre of 17 students at Marjorie Stoneman Douglass High School in Parkland, Florida.

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I have to watch myself these days. I allow myself to become melancholy. And when I get this way I usually go back somewhere and reconnect to a different time – a safe harbor in my past. I reread favorite books – usually Salinger’s. I watch YouTube videos from old movies or events – like Ali-…

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Hatcher set off to enjoy some well-deserved leisure time at the beginning of this year. It never occurred to me that I would ever write this column – mainly because it never occurred to me that a day would come when we were publishing newspapers without Hatcher Hurd.

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One question I get about my Appalachian Trail hike is “why” – why did you do it, walk those 2,200 miles – and the answer I give is that I wanted to stop time.

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One of the first lessons I learned as a parent was that children watch and listen to everything we do and say. And generally, they never forget it. That is, they model their parents’ behavior. They watch how we speak to and treat our spouse; they observe how we talk to a clerk, a senior, or …

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My 2-year-old granddaughter, Phoebe, sat on my lap and for a couple hours, smiled, clapped, stared, wiggled and ate goldfish. Every couple of minutes my wife, Christina, who sat next to us, would cut her eyes over to Phoebe and just grin and watch with wonder. She didn’t need to say a word t…

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Today was a long strange day and one I will remember fondly for a long time. I woke up to rain. The Woman’s March in downtown Atlanta was scheduled to start at 1:00. I knew it would probably be crowded, especially on MARTA. I don’t like crowds particularly. However, I had mentioned to staff …

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“Did the trail change you” is the question I get almost every time someone finds out that I thru—hiked the AT. Every time they ask the question part of me wants to say “no” — I’m the same guy but another part of me says “you bet—ya, it changed everything.”

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The problem with history is that it is so hard to see while it is happening. It is difficult to recognize the nuances or even the macro paradigm shifts as they are occurring.

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All my life I seem to have taken the hard route to where ever I was going. I made a lot of mistakes and traveled many dead-end roads and had to stop, reverse course and look for the right way.

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“It has become abundantly clear that our technology has surpassed our humanity.” – attributed to Albert Einstein. I might suggest that lots of things have surpassed our humanity including technology.

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With the third and final debate now behind us, and political vitriol spreading like wildfire, it’s no wonder why so many Americans have become apathetic about the election process and, alarmingly, may cease to vote at all.

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When my daughter got into my wife’s car on the last day of middle school she casually sighed, “Well, those were the worst three years of my life.”

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“Magic” is my most treasured memory from the Trail – "trail magic." That is a hiker term for acts of grace and giving that seem to permeate the trail for all hikers.

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So the hike is over. It ended yesterday on top of Mount Katahdin about 9 a.m. I was the only person on the summit. I took my own obligatory picture with that Katahdin sign and rang the virtual bell and then, as the clouds closed, I headed down the mountain-way down the mountain.

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So it has been too long since I sent a column home. I have walked a lot since the last one. I am now in Maine and have roughly a bit under a month to go to finish my hike.

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The hikers on the Trail are of all ages and from all walks of life. They are hiking by themselves and together. Some are hiking with dogs. There are parents and children hiking, grandparents hiking with grandchildren, seniors hiking with seniors. They are from all over the world and they are…

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I have been on the trail now over four months. Every day I try to feed myself, find shelter and walk. Walking now is my job. I walk somewhere between 15 and 20 miles a day with the pack on my back weighing between 28 and 41 pounds. Usually, at least 18 to 20 pounds of that is food and water.…

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I woke up this morning feeling somewhat desperate. We were almost out of the Shenandoah and closing in on 1,000 miles. The night before, I pushed hard for 20 miles to get into Front Royal to resupply and then stayed the night.

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When I am not sleeping in my tent on the Appalachian Trail, I sleep in a hostel or a motel. This gives me an opportunity to shower and resupply.

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That’s something that I am frequently asked. Usually, the question is presented with at least a trace of anxiety – not so dissimilar to asking how Aunt Martha, who you know has been ill, is doing these days and hoping that the answer is not that she died, or worse. You see, and one cannot mi…

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I recently hired a new delivery person. We rarely have any changes in our delivery staff, and I am really picky about who delivers your paper. The new person – Lynn – was someone who I liked the minute we struck up a conversation. She was middle-aged, articulate, dignified and composed. She …

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Yes, Warren Buffett is still buying newspapers. His most recent acquisition is the Greensboro, N.C., News & Record. Of course, I always am thrilled when the arguably smartest investor on earth keeps buying newspapers. However, his recent purchase did not excite me as much as the story be…

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Bratwurst is Wisconsin soul food. I have fond memories of the time I spent in Hurley, Wisconsin running the Paavo Nurmi Marathon in 1994 so when I found bratwurst at Whole Foods Market in Georgia recently, I bought some. Real bratwurst is a fresh sausage that must be cooked before eating, bu…

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When my daughter got into my wife’s car on the last day of middle school she casually sighed, “Well, those were the worst three years of my life.”

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In the line at the store, the cashier told an older woman that she should bring her own grocery bags because plastic bags weren't good for the environment.